Sex & Relationships
From relationship goals to sex advice: if it's about sex or relationships, share it here.
"If you have to ask, you're not ready"
I call bullshit on people saying this to girls who ask how they'll know when they're ready for sex. I had sex for the first time when I was 18 and I didn't ask anyone when to know if I was ready. I thought for sure I was ready and I ended up freaking out right after because I wasn't as ready as I thought I was. Maybe instead of telling girls if they ask then they aren't ready, try something more helpful. Anyone can talk themselves into being ready for anything, doesn't mean they actually are. Explain to these confused girls what they need to prepare for, STIs, pregnancy, regret, for some, a feeling of closeness to the man they lose it to. Explain how you thought you were ready, don't give them some bullshit answer that you probably saw one girl say and decided to say it to every single girl out there who questions sex. Maybe they don't feel comfortable talking to someone about it so they come here. Be supportive, not judgmental...