Am I overreacting?

Question

My fwb is a fit guy and I am overweight (about 230-240) he normally looks at skinny pretty girls, I'm self conscious to let him look at me naked because I'm not what he normally goes after. Also I haven't let him go down on me because I'm self conscious about my weight, what do I do to help.

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He chose you, not some other skinny girl. Clearly his 'usual type' wasn't right for him and he likes you, he might really like your body! Talk to him about it? If you think you're actually 'overweight' not just bigger than you'd like then you could try loosing weight to be healthier but I don't think you need to be selfconsious at all. Your boyfriend obviously wants to be with you, go down on you and see you naked ect :) there's not really anything you can do other than to learn to love your body though I'm afraid and you could get his help to get there :)

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Okay all these other ladies have given you good advice for if he was your bf, but he's not, he's your fwb. That means your relationship is predicated on sex. That means he WANTS to have sex with you. That means he finds you AND your body sexually appealing! You turn him on! You make him want to fuck you silly just by existing! Own your body and your curves and let him go down on you! 😁 He wouldn't even be asking if he didn't want to.

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Hun it's fine trust me! It's the same with me and my partner. If your partner can not deal with you being curvy or your figure, then he does defiantly not deserve to be with a beautiful human being like you! Just talk to him in person and say that your really nervous, that you want to take it slowly to get more comfortable! 💗

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Guys literally don't care about stuff like that. He's having sex with you he's obviously somewhat attracted to you.

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Hi ! I'm in the same relationship ! My bf is very fit, and I'm overweight. We've been together for 3 weeks and I'm as scared as you are. But I don't think you should let your fears take on your happiness, curves can actually be damn sexy ! And there plenty more to love and hug. But if you're really too scared, maybe go talk to him about it, it may relieve your stress and make more sure about yourself. If he chose you, he chose everything that goes with you ! I mean, you can't hide the fact that you're kinda curvy ! So he knows what he's doing. I'm saying all of this for you but also for me, because just like you I was asking myself the same questions. But I really thought a lot about it, and even if I'm still scared, I'm beginning to learn how to embrace and appreciate my round body. So don't be scared about your body, it doesn't define yourself, and if that man is scared by curves, he doesn't know what he's missing ! 
"Bon courage" as they say in France ;)

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