Anal?

Question

My boyfriend wants to try it but I'm not sure. Opinions/advice?

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If your not sure, then don't do it. You should feel 100% ready and comfortable. It'll also help with the overall experience if you are ready - if your nervous or anxious, this may result in being uncontrollably tense whereas you really need to be relaxed and stuff to not get hurt. Its definitely a position that requires trust and good communication. He will need to listen to your needs, (more lube, going slow, not going in all the way until its loose enough, stopping right when its uncomfortable, etc.) You could get seriously injured.

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Communication is key. Definitely work your way up to it if you decide to, too. Start with a finger or two lol

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I have done it with my guy and sometimes it is very enjoyable but one time it really hurt and ended up with a tear with hurt but luckily i was able to tell him to stop before it got worse. Communication and lubrication are key 😂

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I think if it is something you two are comfortable with and can fully communicate, go for it. I myself have tried it with my boyfriend if almost two years and we haven't been able to. It can be painful and just uncomfortable to be honest. Do not think spit will be helpful, it isn't, and make sure to use real lubrication to prevent tearing. Being in a position where you can control the speed is helpful as well as being able to on a moments notice tell him to stop. It may not work the first time, it didn't and still isn't working for us. Be sure you're relaxed :)

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