Please no lectures...I am 35 year old woman with 2 kids already, in a commited relationship. This is my 2nd cycle of bcp, tracking thru FAM (and he is not 100% supportive, he wanted me to stay on the pill for worry free, no pregnancy scare sex). He hates condoms hates the diaphragm I spent over 100$ getting. Our main method was pull out and spermicide during somewhat fertile time. And i was planning on be closer to ovulation so he can continue being satisfied w/O worry of me getting pregnant

I have not ovulated yet, but my CM is telling it may be within a couple days or so.

I just woke him up to give him a be (haven't had sex in couple days) and that is all it was supposed to be. He pulled me up and then we did the deed.

We both knew I stopped the pill because I am done with all the synthetic hormones, so we both went into it knowing that it was not safe. I do not want to take plan b. He may want me to, I am not sure if I should just leave it, or let him choose whether or not I should put that crap in my body.

Like I said, please nonlecture, I don't need it. If I do end up pregnant, the baby will be fully welcomed and loved, but really now is not the time we wanted. And plus he may get mad and at be upset, but like I keep saying he knew and if he was that hung up he could have and should have put on a condom or pushed me back down to continue with the original plan of bj.

Told him before I let him go inside, that we should really use something and all he said was stop talking.