The other day, my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex for a solid 3 minutes, till we decided to abort mission and put on a condom. However, that little "taste" of not wearing a condom was enough to want us to try it again, but we're both kinda scared. I've heard tons of stories about the fertility awareness method and how people swear by it, but it still seems a bit risky to me. My bf tends to precum a lot, and I think that's what concerns us the most. I know I could go on bc, but I'm not very fond of the idea of adding hormones to my body, and the copper IUD wouldn't be the smartest decision for me since I already have intense cramps and a heavy flow without it. Is there anything else I can do? Would spermicide be enough for precum? Should we just give up on the idea of sex without a condom till we feel ready to have a kid?? Idk 😭