So I met this guy we've been talking for about 4 months now or whatever he's taken me out on dates and I have up my virginity to him.....but some days I don't know if he likes me or if he doesn't . So I asked him how he feels about me and he said that he likes me but he's not ready for a serious relationship as he just got out of a 3 year relationship in January-February. Idk how I feel about this because I really like him . Even more I have a deeper connection with him because I've opened up myself to him and gave him my vCard. He's going off to college soon about 3 hours away from where I live, if I stay and go to college here I'll be an hour away from him.....but my parents are having problems and my mom wants to move to Florida....and she wants me to move with her but my dad will be staying in VA . What should I do? I'm confused I really like him and I'm really sad and hurt that he now mentions the whole not ready for a serious relationship thing . I told him it's okay and that we'll wait it out and see what happens and he's cool with it. I don't wanna lose him at all as a friend or potential future boyfriend but I don't know if he actually is going to get over the heartbreak soon and move on or if I should ? Wait or don't wait?