I can't stand her at times!! I have never disrespect her but she's so nosey!! And she has my hubby believe everything she says!!! Yesterday we celebrate y 2 bby girls b day and God we had all are relative's over for dinner I cook for like 75 people and had to serve everyone their plates as they were arriving and she's just sitting on her as saying ( Pamela this table need napkins this other on needs drinks this other on needs more food)!! Instead of getting her fat ass up and helping! I didn't even get to enjoy my girls on their big day!!! Sorry everyone just needed to get this out but what do you think I should do FYI she's always like this!!! And she at my house almost every. Week end!!!