Is it cheating?

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Hey ladies so I'm really upset right now. I was using my bfs phone when I came across a tumblr account that he had bookmarked. The tumblr was a gallery of nude pictures of someone I went to high school with and we both know her. I know that guys look at porn but it just bothers me as I don't look at dick pics from his friends. It makes me feel even more fat and undesirable in this pregnancy. Any advice would really help. Thx

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I don't think you're overreacting. Porn is one thing. It's a fantasy. Him looking at photos of a real woman that you both know?! Not ok. Not ever. And is the account a secret? Did you know he was even on there? Also not ok. Sorry, girlfriend. You don't deserve that.

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I would be pissed!

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In my household, yes and I'd be livid.

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My man would be walking out the door so fast its disrespectful in our home and would not be tolerated from either one of us to behave in such a way

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Just ask. If he denys cheating tell him what you found and explain you don't like that.

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Talk to him about it. For you to go looking, you had to be suspicious of something going on. (Which a lot of us have snooped through our SO's phone or computer at some point or another.) Just talk to him. Say you found it and you want to know what that was all about. Has he been talking to her or has he talked to her at all? Or is it just she posts nudes and he likes them and that's just it? I mean I have friends who post nudes on Tumbler that both my SO and I follow and he has reblogged them. It's not that he would ever try anything with them, he can just appreciate their body. That is also my SO and I's relationship which is very comfortable with things like that. If this is something that is hurting you, you really need to talk to him as soon as possible. Otherwise he is going to continue looking and thus continue hurting you. But don't take him looking at other women as a jab towards you. What your body is doing is beautiful. You have created life with him. That is far more special than someone's ass and titties on Tumblr.

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porn is one thing, but looking at naked pictures of someone you both know in real life? oh hell fucking no. that's far from okay. fuck him for doing that to you, you don't deserve that. and while carrying his child? the fucking nerve on him. nasty excuse for a human being.

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Have you confronted him about it?

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