We're both 18. I have had relationship experience, he has none. I'm his first real relationship. He's really shy even around me. I'm so happy to be with him. He is also a virgin. He hasn't been able to get it up since we been trying to be intimate. He says it stressful for him. He's able to eat me out and finger me with no problem. I just want to please him the same way he's been pleasing me. It doesn't matter how much kissing and touching or seeing my body naked nothing happens. I told him we can take baby steps until he's ready. He still feel likes he's disappointing me. I keep telling him it's okay, we'll do it when he's ready. He's still afraid that he'll be a huge disappointment to me. What can I do to make him less stressed out about this? I'm worried that I'm scaring him.  Is this normal for a guy to worry so much about this?