Disappointment.

After months of talking about having kids together and my boyfriend spending more time with my daughter, he tells me he doesn't know that he is ready for our own kids. He's getting older and I fear he won't ever be in a position where he will feel ready. When we first met I knew that he was someone that hadn't wanted any, but as we spent more time together we had discussion after discussion about having them and planning out when we want to start trying. Personally, I want more kids terribly bad, and as my daughter is about to turn 2, I was hoping to conceive another soon so they wouldn't be far apart. He drops this bomb on me and I think he's fearful that I'm going to leave him. Truth be told, I don't know if I can accept that I may never have another kid, but I want to spend my life with this man. I'm feeling very torn. Opinions? Comments?
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Sa

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Honestly that was a big problem for me. You really have to evaluate your life cause for me, I actually left. I wanted more kids and I knew in my heart hard I stayed I would resent him later on down the road even though he was honest with me about how he felt. In my case needless to say we are back together and expecting our second son, third child in 16 weeks.

J

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It's good that he says how he realy feels if he doesn't want one then it's best he doesn't have one and if he's not ready then it's best he doesn't have one yet it sounds like he just told he wanted one to please you I had someone do that to me and we ended up braking. Up kids are hard and they are not for everyone