I know abuse generally isn't tolerated in relationships, but he isn't hitting me or anything, my boyfriend usually insults me or sometimes threatens to kill me if I leave him, when I tell people they say it isn't abuse because he's not hitting me, but all he does is insult me. Plus he's seeing another girl and won't let me know who she is, and he even showed me pics but blurs out things like info. I feel like shit and I feel so alone, and if I try talking to anyone at all they'll mock me for not standing up for myself, but he's threatened me before and has even grabbed my wrist once. He calls me a slut, sometimes even fat. Is this considered abuse and should I be worried if he told me a girl is showing him "tan lines" ??? These are the text convos, and yes I was shot with a BB gun that went through my skin and made me bleed a bit. 😞