So, my husband can be a raging bitch. It used to be once in a while, but lately it's only on days that end with the word "day." Occasionally, he'll be nice for a couple of hours and then try to have sex with me. It's like he doesn't get that 2 hours of being fake nice doesn't make up for being an insufferable asshole. I literally can't get wet down there when he gets like that. But, he seems to be completely unable to understand. Why? I mean, am I the only person in the world who can't become aroused when I'm treated badly? Is anyone else like that? He gets so angry when he doesn't get laid, so it just makes things worse. What am I supposed to do? Just let him go in dry (which is really bad for you), get his and that's it?