He tells me that he loves me but at times he calls me ugly? And says things like "you cant even please your own man". When we have sex I ask him not to finish of in me and he always does. Hes always rough and when I ask him to stop he just keeps going and right after he tries to start a fight with me?? But he claims that he loves me.. Why do certain men behave this way. I have feelings for him. I dont deserve that at all.