Need help making a decsion.

Lea
So I'm going to get a baby carrier I'm choosing between a tula,ergo 360, or a lillibaby. Which is the best? Pros/cons of each? I want something I can wear but also my SO. I'm 5'2 and currently after baby 199lbs my SO is 6'2 and around 280lbs. Any advice/suggestion would be great case I'm a ftm and am lost with all these carriers out there.