Planning my wedding!!

For those of you already married ladies out there or ladies who have attended great weddings I need help! It's time to start planning my wedding and I am clueless as to what all I need to do. So if you could just drop a comment of what I need to focus on and how your dream wedding was or if you attended a wedding what you loved or didn't love. I know it's my special day but it wouldn't be as special if I didn't get inputs from you wonderful women! Thank you 💗