What should I do? (About a friend)

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So I just called one of my best friends to see if she wanted to get together  and she blocked my number. I know what your thinking she must not like you. But We just hung out like 2 months ago and everything was fine. The only thing is I seen her husband having dinner with another female and I told her about it. And she didn't believe me I had no reason to lie. I really want to remain friends? Should I have not told her what I seen? What should I do? Any advice?

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You didn't do anything wrong. I feel like in those situations your damned if you do and damned if you don't. Most likely get husband lied and said you're a liar and she sided with him. Just know it's not personal and everything will come out in the wash.

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I think you did the right thing. It's on her shoulders to handle her marriage herself. How do you know she blocked your number? You could maybe write her a letter... I wouldn't take it personally. She's going through a lot and may choose to side with her husband. That's more reflective on her, not on you. You did the right thing.

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You done nothing wrong you were a being a good friend and doing the right thing I think she would have been even more upset if she found out you knew and didn't tell her

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Why hurt her unnecessarily? Especially not knowing the circumstances surrounding the dinner with this other woman. It could have been perfectly innocent and you could have caused trouble in a great relationship sticking your nose in where it didn't belong. Obviously you aren't very close friends or it wouldn't have taken you 2mos to find out she blocked you. If I was her the "friendship" would be over.

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U definitely did the right thing. If it all came out in the end and she found out u didn't tell her...u'd def be in the doghouse! It would be awful of u DIDNT tell her! Sounds like she confronted her hubby who obv swung her to his side but regardless it's in her mind now and with her being suspicious, eventually he'll slip up and it'll all come out in the open for sure. She's prolly just heart broken and what's to believe u lied so doesn't wanna face u, just b there for her, especially if she does come back with a broken heart...u sound like an amazing friend so I'm sure u'll b there when she needs it!

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You did the right thing by letting her know. She isn't going to be really happy in her marriage or social life with her friends if she continues to run from the truth. Blocking you seems like she is avoiding the situation. Hopefully she isn't depressed but cutting off friends isn't going to help her. ?

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If she wants to ignore the truth, that's her issue. But to be possible blaming you for telling her, she's just a shitty friend. You were doing what you though was right, and her blocking you is beyond immature. She either let her husband convince her you were lying, or is trying to cover up his affair, so she cuts you off for knowing. Like you said, you had no reason to lie to her, so the problem is all hers.

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Probably should have just minded your own business, honey. I'm sorry. She told her man what you told her you saw and he called you a hater and told her she shouldn't be friends with such a jealous b*t*h. She's choosing him. Not a surprise. Once she figures it out for herself she'll come back. Wait for her to come around if you think the friendship is worth saving. Otherwise, move on hun.

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A good friend would tell and if she is mad at then she doesn't take you as serious friend.  Hopefully she will wake up but may have to learn things on her own.

What should I do? (About a friend)

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