BFP x don't get too excited! :(

In September this year I got my first BFP 5 days earlier than my expected period. I told a couple of people, although I didn't put anything on social media my closest friends and family knew I had my positive. Unfortunately AF came, bad cramps and that empty feeling... Devastated! We had to tell our friends and family that it was a " chemical pregnancy"! What means, a really early miscarriage. So in October we didn't try to conceive, I decided to wait one cycle... And this month, November I got another BFP! It's really faint, but visible. Husband doesn't know yet, because I'm still waiting for my period that will be due on 23rd. Couldn't help but tell 3 close friends, that knew. I was trying to conceive and they all told me to not get TOO EXCITED!!! I'm sad... Very sensitive... I just wish they would say that they were it would be it... Even if they weren't... You know, some encouragement? :( I guess I'll just talk to God and pray that I'll have a healthy rainbow baby.