Feels like no one gets it

I'm just so frustrated 😡 so I'm friends with this girl, she also has a baby that's exactly a year younger then my son. She pregnant with her second and got put on bed rest. We made plans to hang out child free but I had to cancel because I had someone coming to look at my place and possibly taking over my lease so I could move to be back with my finacee (he had to move for work) well she got so freaking mad at me for it! Like really!? You have kids, you should get having to put what's best for family first! I'm just so annoyed at no on understanding my kids and family come first 😡