Who has helped you most through your loss?

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My husband... After my loss, I was just so glad and grateful with the way he made me feel. He never let me blame myself... Took care of me the best way he could. I'm what I am today because of him. ❤️❤️

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My family and husband

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My dad, best friend, and now my husband. My husband is also hurting and doesn't really know what do do for me. Now that the bleeding has stopped and we can have sex we're a little more on steady ground, a little any way. For some reason with him sex has always been a comfort when I'm hurting deeply. I just feel very safe, secure, and grounded during that time. 
My dad doesn't know what to do but he understands I'm hurting and hurts with me. He's actually doing his very best to drop everything and come out to stay with me for a little. My mom wouldn't even do that and I asked her if she'd try to. I understand it isn't really possible, especially to do it right away but she didn't even try. It may be taking my dad a little over a month but he's getting here as fast as he can and I really feel like I need my dad. 
My best friend isn't even in the same state as me because of life but she has let me tell her all the horrible disgusting details and just listens. She lets me know she's here for me and I know she hurts for me.

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My mom who is my best friend really didn't help me this time and it broke my heart she doesn't understand. She said everything from "better now than later" "everything happens for a reason" to "maybe it's better than having a sick baby". She doesn't understand why I still cry every day (it's been just over two weeks!). My dad asked me to go visit a friend of mine on the day of my d&c since she just gave birth in the same hospital (wtf???), my friend was similar to my mom. 
Only my bf was there for me. Just asked if i am mourning. I said yes and he just hugged me. He wanted to know my feelings. I couldn't talk so he asked if i was sad, if i worry about any future pregnancies...just nod or not questions. So he could understand.

Well he just broke up with me now just 2 weeks after my d&c. And I don't know what's worse - losing someone I absolutely love and want a future with or losing the only person who let me cry my heart out.

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Had a ectopic last yr. 5 months on im still struggling. Hubby doesnt want to acknowledge it, & most people i know wont bring it up. The support i have got has come from ectopic support groups on facebook. It helps to speak to others who have been through the same thing

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