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Hey ladies,

I've been talking to this guy online, met him on a dating website. I was a bit weary to talk to him, considering his pics were his undies showing an outline of his penis. But he seemed nice, really wanted to meet me. However, he's a bit of a nobody at the moment. He's training and hoping to get a job in the athletic field, but doesn't really hold a serious job right now. Not to mention that I know he's talking with other girls. He always wants to see pics of me, and he gladly sends me nudes of him but also wants some in return. I told him I don't send nudes, and he's okay with that. But he always wants pics of my butt and today he asked for a bikini pic... I don't know, I agreed to meet him in about a month when I'm finished with school and leave for summer. I'm just worried he wants me for my body, also considering I'm a virgin and he knows that. I also don't have a very fit body at the moment, and it'll take some time for me to get in shape since I'm not doing fitness right now. My question is should I still give him a chance? Or should I straight out tell him "listen I want a relationship for love. Not for your body. So what do you want?" I honestly don't know. He's also slept around with tons of women, but that doesn't mean he's a bad guy, I'm just looking for someone to love, not to have sex with. You know? What should I do?