I had a miscarriage on May 13th,i should have been almost 12 weeks when i started to spot,didnt think much of it at the time as my previous pregnancy 8 years before i sometimes spotted due to kidney infections, well this time around when it started happeneing again i went for an early scan,everything looked great,i was measuring at 6 weeks,babys heart was beating in everything,but they said i had free fluid in my uterus,gave me an app a week later to come back to make sure fluid was gone,,well it was,than 4 weeks later started to bleed like a period, went back for another scan to be told babys heart had stopoed at 7 weeks,which would have been a week after i seen his/her heart beating,,i was devastated :( couldnt stop crying in the room,I decided to pass it naturally and 2 weeks later I did,:( it was my first miscarriage,I have an 8 year old and 12 year old,but after my last daughter I went on the pill,came off them in January after almost 8 years being on them,to conceive this little one,,I can't help but feel did I not wait long enough after stopping bc to conceive, maybe the hormone was still in my body?? My doc told me wait a year???A YEAR??Im 31 so really dont want to wait a year to conceive again,,Than the midwife told me one cycle and another doc told me 3 months??/iM so confused when to start again,,I really want another baby but petrified,,anyone know when the right time is really??