TTC 9 months, ADVICE!

Hello :) looking for some advice; my husband and I are approaching 9 months TTC our first child. Been married 2 years, really want to start our family. I have been taking my bbt and doing opk's pretty much every month. I've been able to detect ovulation mostly with my temp, the OPKs have been tricky for me, but I'm assuming I'm not having an issue with ovulation based on my temp. Anyways, my mom is a nurse and recommended I make an appt with an obgyn so I did, and it's in 1 month. I'm nervous!!! I have never had any health issues, very healthy 27 year old, eat healthy and workout almost every day now. Regular periods. My husband has recently lost 25 pounds and is getting into great shape as well. Wondering what I should expect at this appt that they call a "family planning" appt. do I need to bring my husband? What are some GOOD questions I need to make sure to ask?? I'm soooo afraid I will get bad news :( Any advice is welcome and appreciated!!! Thanks friends :)