I'm really not sure how to cope with it yet. I was 9 weeks 4 days. It took us 14 months to get our BFP. Last night I called the RN she said it was normal and to call dr in am so I did. This morning I went in for an ultrasound & the dr found no heartbeat. They sent me to radiology to confirm loss. I'm so upset & I just want to be alone. I wish I would have waited to annouce it especially to my 3 year old daughter. I'm most worried about telling her. She was very excited.