Should she be mad at me?

Question

I work with my friend, and I got off 4 hours before her because I started earlier. Anyways, my friend let me borrow her car to go to her house and then I would pick her up when she got off her shift. Something happened and then I had to leave her house and bring her car back to work. I left a receipt in her car from work and a sticky note with her address on her vanity at her house, and accidentally forgot to turn the fan off and bathroom light when I left. I returned her car to work and I left. An hour after she got off she texted me telling me I was "rude as fuck" because I left those two papers in her car and on her vanity and because I left the fan & light on. She said it was "disrespectful." I honestly didn't mean it in any rude way, and I was rushed out of her house. I wasn't throwing trash all over the place. But now I'm "rude" and "disrespectful." Should she be mad at me? Or is she just being over dramatic?

Answer

I think she has a right to be a bit annoyed, honestly. I'm very big on the 'return things as you found them' rule. But, she should have talked to you about it instead of being so abrasive. I do think you should probably apologize, but don't take it personally. It sounds like she really overreacted, but make sure to consider her feelings too.

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I get where she's coming from but she shouldn't have been so angry and rude about it. It would have been one thing if she politely reminded you to turn off the lights next time but her response was unnecessary.

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'Oh no! What am I going to do! A fan is on and there is a paper on the vanity! Oh I know, I text my best friend about how she is rude and disrespectful'  Like seriously.  It would have just been easier to turn of the fan and throw away the paper.  She's being way overdramatic.

Should she be mad at me?

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