I moved to a different town six months ago with my husband and two kids. My oldest child is not biologically his and my sons father is very active in his life. We have a hard time having a conversation but we can agree on visitation. Prior to moving our agreement was he'd have his son every weekend I only moved an hour and thirty minutes away so I didn't see a reason to change it but I can compromise and drive halfway to meet him so he can pick up his son. However since we moved he has done nothing for my son financially and now he doesn't feel like he has to drive halfway but I have to drop him off and pick him up every weekend. My husband and I pull all the weight and we have a third baby on the way plus our bills and our own family events. I feel like my son's father is being inconsiderate granted my marriage and other children have nothing to do with him but it's just common courtesy. He's not helping me at all so why do I have to go out of my way to help him when he's not doing it for me but I see on social media he takes very good care of his gf and her son. Their always going out and she gloats about everything he does for her but he can't meet me halfway to pick up his son or even send clothes. I had a run in with his gf before and she had alot to say about me and we've never even been introduced. This girl really dislikes me all bc my son's father is still bitter about me moving on so quickly after our breakup so I believe she plays a part in this. I say this bc he does have times when he's level headed and mature our arrangement was no big deal, that's usually when their on bad terms but when they're good he's a very disrespectful and bashing me as a mother and now he can't meet me halfway. Ask me how I know social media tells all and the town I'm from is very small and everybody talks. I just want peace I'm due any day now and my son wants to see his dad. My doctor recommended I don't drive long distances especially alone. My husband works long, crazy hours. Why is this even a problem? I just don't understand. We have no court order but I'm hoping he takes me to court so we can have this in writing for my son's sake. He doesn't deserve this and I've been trying over and over again with his father.