Help Im a Nag!!!

Starrlight
Ok,so my husband and I have been together 10years,we have a 7 year old daughter....Everyday I complain about dishes,dirty house,picking up after yourselves,help with our daughter and much more....Hes been telling me lately all I do is "nag like an old hag" but if he were to get off the couch and help more I could relax and not nag....Ive been asking for help for years and nothing has changed!!! What do I do? Keep nagging or realize hes no help and keep my mouth shut and do it all anyways?😥😥😥