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Ugh I'm so tired of ppl seeing me & 2-3 of my kids walking somewhere & they ask me "how many kids do you have" I have 4 children! & then they be like "aww man, how do you do it, don't you be tired, man you got that". Taking care of 4 children under 10 is not tough if you raised your children the right way. Every child I had has helped me out in some way when I had the next baby. It's not tough. It's more like a team work thing really & I love it. If I wanted me I would have more when my 3week old baby turn 4-5years old. But my last pregnancy took a lot on my body, so I'm done but might change my mind. But who knows.

Anyone with 3 or more children ever get these Annoying questions from random ppl or family members?

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Every child and every family is different. Just because you "raise them right" doesn't mean you might not get a hellion.

4 kids is a lot in today's world. It just is. And you're young so that's a double head cock in the "unusual" department. Doesn't make it good or bad. It's just how it is.

At 24 kids were just starting to be a possibility in my mind. So, seeing someone with four at 24 would be like "wow! I don't think I could've done that! How do you do that?" It's not bad. It's just not my normal. It is your normal.

People will talk to you about your kids because they're right there. And they'll be surprised because you have so many so young because it's not their normal. They're not being rude. They're just being human beings.

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I hear this all the time. I have 3 children. My son is 6 my 2 girls are 3 and 2 months. Everyone is always asking me am I done or did I get my tubes tied. So much negativity especially from my grandmother who also had 3 kids 🙄...ppl are always telling me I got my hands full. What ever happened to just congratulating ppl and staying out of others business.

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Is probably just a topic of conversation... I have a 4 month old who is very demanding so I can't imagine having 3 more but that's just my situation! Don't let them get you down.. You don't need to explain yourself to anyone

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I hear that all the time!!! When i was 24 i also had 4 kids!!! I thought i was done! Now Im 33 and i just had one more baby!!! So now i have 5 kids!!! And yes i get it all the time!!! Wow u have 5 kids? Are these all ur kids? Wow how many do u have? Ur so brave to have so many! How do u do it? LoL

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My mom had 5 kids by the time I was 10. She made it look easy. But people who think that's a lot of kids always say something. It's not common to have that many kids these days.

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