How to get your husband excited about ttc after a second miscarriage?

Alana • Married | TTC #3 w/ APS | Mommy to 1 girl 👧🏼 & 1 boy 👦🏼 & 3 angels 👼🏼 |
He's very sad and although I'm not going to toss it on him the week after I do want to get back to it but I don't want him to be scared. Maybe I should not tel him till after my first ultrasound next time so he doesn't have to go through it again if it happens again. I handle it a little better than him I think.