Relationship issues

So me and my man have been arguing and literally exploded with anger a couple days ago on Memorial Day. I don't know what's gotten between us but we used to be so freaking happy. We've been together for 2 years now! Most of the argument are about our annoying habit that we just realized we had individually, how stubborn I can be, and how he doesn't really call or text much at all during the day. I mean he goes to work all day and when he gets off everyday, I get only one text message saying "hi baby". The sex is still fantastic!! For the text in thing, I want to at least be thought of and I want to talk to him and ask him how his was or anything with a relevant topic. Sometimes I won't get a text at all. He's a carpenter, he works every day, I take him lunch everyday, he gets off at 5 pm, and the love is definitely still there between us, strongly, when we are together or apart. Cheating is definitely 100% out of the question (trust me, I know him best and he's nowhere near that type). I want actual advice. Instead of telling me to "just break up" it literally doesn't help at all. It gives me no type of help actually. I'm not someone to just give up and it's not so bad to where that has to be done at all. It's just been on and off argument for the past 2 months and I need advice on how to turn that around? I ask for relationship advice a lot and I've gotten nothing but "if you're having problems, break up". Please I need actual advice instead of jumping to conclusions! Our arguments need to stop!