Seriously!?!

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Why don't you just call the group No BFP?? It's not general if it doesn't cover all parts of TTC.

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I wish there was a way to just block all of the obvious bfps and "is this positive?!" People. I enjoy hearing success stories from people who have had a hard time ttc, supplements they used to help, etc.

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I'm older and ttc I love seeing the bfp's!!! What I don't like is seeing all the bfns. Makes me loose a little hope each time I see one. I don't get all butt hurt and try to change things for everyone else because i can't handle disappointment. I was raised to know life comes does come with disappointment no matter how much you want or how hard you work for something and that it is ok. Everybody makes the team these days even if they suck at it. Not the way the world should work....

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Yeah, I don't get it ? Aren't we all supposed to find encouragement and support here?

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Because there are so many ladies who have complained about ttc and having to look at everyone else's bfp's.....
​I love it tho, congratulating them and hearing their stories gives me hope. Just makes others angry I guess.

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I'd rather hear their success after seeing them try for so long as opposed to them disappearing and we never hear about anyone's success ever. Especially when there's a situation close to your own. 
​But I do get it, I do see the other side of it too. 
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I see where they're going with it, but it makes me confused about what is/isn't allowed. I've had one daughter, so technically I've had a bfp before. But I'm on cycle 11 of ttc this time. Also are we allowed to ask questions to other current mothers trying for their second, third, etc child? Or is it for first time ttc'ers? ?