Boyfriends

Aliyah
I've been dating my boyfriend for 11 months almost a year we have a long distance relationship. And everyone nags on my about it . But anyways I have a bestfriend and He's a boy 😐 which doesn't make my br happy . He went off on me the other night, now me and my bestfriend aren't friends anymore. I cried so much because my friend was another part of me and now he's gone , I tried to talk to my friend now he doesn't respond to me. All because my boyfriend doesn't want me to have a boy best friend. What should I do ?
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Ma

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I think a lot of factors play into this tbh. Were you friends with this guy before you started dating your boyfriend? Or was it after? Does your boyfriend have any legitimate reason for disliking him?? Being friends with you and also happening to have a penis isn't a legit reason. I don't agree with people telling their SO's what they can and can't do, but I can understand doing things out of respect for the person you're dating, as long as there's a legit reason.

Al

Aliyah • Jul 3, 2016
I've been friends with him before I started dating my bf

Ad

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I think balance is key here. You should work to amend your friendship with your friend and your relationship. I had this situation but I was in your boyfriends shoes. Boundaries need to be set and respected but I assure you everything will be fine if you communicate. 

Ka

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My ex didn't let me have guy friends but honestly, all of my friends are guys so he wasn't worth it. My hubby doesn't care that I hang out with guys. Get a new boyfriend. Best friends last longer 😊