Am I too big for 5 months? (20 weeks)

This is a picture of me today, I'm 20 weeks. Someone told me (who is 31 weeks) that I look huge compared to them.. really lowers my confidence. Do I look too big for 5 months? I feel soo huge & idk if I look small or big. I get that every pregnant woman's body is different but I just needed some opinions. My confidence is really low.😞😞😞 Especially after being told that.. any feedback is appreciated.