I wonder to test or not to test at 14 dpo. I have had spotting for 3 days in a row. I never spot for that long before AF. It is at most a day before, if at all. I tested at 11 dpo and it was negative. After almost a year of trying, getting so upset the last 3 cycles that I can't help but cry, getting mad that my body isn't doing what I want it to do, I don't no how much more I can handle. I want to love myself again, and every cycle that fails, I feel like I loose a little more of my focus. So I sit here and wonder if I should just test so AF can come and laugh in my face. Then I can pick myself back up, attempt to be positive that anything can happen, and again. Baby dust to all.