Venting, sorry :(

My husband is a wonderful man who provides for not just me, his pregnant wife and his son, but his mom, and sister as well.

But lately his mom and sister have been taking advantage of his generosity and I feel like they are just taking all of our money without thinking about the repercussions it has on us.

Last week we sent them over $900 for them to stay 3 nights at a motel to visit his moms sick brother, eat food, buy a change of clothes, etc, but they chose to stay only 2. And instead of saving the money they didnt spend, for their insurance or bills, we had to send them extra because they had done spent it. Well come to find out that motel we paid for was also so his sister could cheat on her husband as well.

That really irritated me but I didn't say anything because my husband said not to say anything.

Then this past weekend his mom was hinting at us sending her more money for a hotel for a whole week saying "oh i just dont know how were going to stay and take care of my brother," when we had found out that they lied and already paid for a motel.

Me and my husband work hard and all the money we earn goes towards bills, food on our table and also paying their internet, their insurance, their daily car fixes and needs, and now apparently their vacation. His sister doesnt work and dont understand how frustrating it is to have your hardearned money be spent for stupid shit.

We literally had $26.88 in our bank account and they were wanting us to send them money so his sister could go meet up with these guys and cheat on her husband. What hurt the most though, was his mom lying to us saying they didn't have any money when they had already had the motel room booked AND we sent them almost a $1000 last weekend.

I am beyond aggravated and cant keep biting my tongue but my husband loves his mom but I hate hate hate people taking advantage of us.

The first time i met his mother I shouldve known we was going to have problems, cuz she had told me my husbands ex-wife missed out on the gravy train and I just brushed it off as a harmless joke.

Sorry my rant/vent was long. Had to get it off my chest