Need angel baby advice
I've been with my husband awhile now but when he was younger he had a baby with someone else, the baby was born to early and died a hour after birth. Him and the mom don't talk or get along, he's always been upfront about the baby and told me everything about it. But he's very closed about it at the same time....earlier this year on the baby's birthdate he broke down to me saying he doesn't know why but he feels like a Terrible father, he feels like his baby is always with the mom and he feels like a horrible person.....the mom always leaves tons of gifts on the grave, has a tattoo memorial ect my husband isn't that person he does his grieving silently, he doesn't have one thing about the baby around the house...he has a album with some pictures that he hides away in the attic.....
So my question is...for Father's Day I got him a cute album of our daughter who is only a couple months old, I got him a card from "her" and a card from me....I kinda wanna include his angel baby in one of the cards but I'm not sure what to say...I want to reassure him that he's a beautiful person and a great father....I got a angel stone from him that in theory you talk to about your worry and concerns to your angel....
What should I say in the card? Something simple and not to in depth...I don't wanna cross a boundary but wanna include the baby still and reassure him he's a good dad and the baby is just as much his as it was hers.
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