Limited visits

I'm a FTM and a few weeks ago I went in to false labor. The contractions hurt pretty bad had them for 8 hours and I was hurting and uncomfortable and found it difficult to hold on conversations and be social during it. So I decided while I'm in labor I only want a few certain people coming to the hospital and then after he is born and skin to skin is over everyone can come. The only people I want there during labor is my parents and my SOs parents and his gma and one of my close friends. So 6 people total. But so many other people insist on coming to the hospital even though I said no. Have any of you ladies restricted who can visit during labor? My gma told me I CANT tell her she can't come. So I'm thinking about giving the hospital a list of people to allow in to see me. What would you ladies do in this situation?