Swollen vaginaaaaa 😖

Tiffany Nicole • 23, Texas, FTM!
So I've been very uncomfortable "down there" all day today. After my shower I asked my SO to take a look for me and he said it looks very swollen and red. He passed me a mirror and shined a light down there for me and it looks like my lips are the main thing that's swollen. Wearing underwear feels extremely uncomfortable but I'm discharging like crazy due to my pregnancy so I really don't want to go commando. Has this happened to anyone else? Is this normal? What did you do to get rid of the pain? TIA ladies!