Is selling undies cheating?

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Hi there. I am 21 and i dont have much money so i started selling my undies. I make like 30 bucks per undie and i used the money for my bills. But the thing is i have a fiance.. Basically all i do is wear them, put them in my onlineshop and sell them. No dirty talk, no touching, no intimate thing or anything like that. I really need the money but i have a horrible feeling doing this without letting him know :/ What do you think?

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two questions: 1- how would you feel if he bought a pair of worn women's panties? And 2- how would you feel if he were selling his worn underpants? 
Is it cheating? Lol no. But the fact is that other humans (not your fiancé) are more than likely using these for less than innocent things. He might think it's cool that you can make money like that, he might think it's disgusting.. But talking to him is important bc you are obviously feeling something about this to make you question it yourself, you know?

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Im more annoyed at the fact peoole care you sell your underwear than the real question at hand.

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No I don't think it's cheating and it's paying your bills but I would have a talk with him about it to her how he feels

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Dude I need to get in on that shit! But no, it's not cheating, but it's worth being honest with him. Honesty is the key to any good relationship.

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Have respect enough to ask him does he care, he might get mad but it's still better than having done it and hiding it behind him forever, it's not cheating but is be pissed if my husband did or bought it. Always put yourself in his shoes.

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Well it depends on how you look at it. Think of it like this, your VALERIE naturally cleanses itself with discharge also know as cervical mucus or vaginal secretion. When you get fired up or horny "having the hots😍😍" especially for your lover your vaginal walls start to secreat for the purpose of vaginal intercourse and clean itself. Now imagine that another man is smelling your vaginal secretion. And if I'm not mistaken the main reason most men fetishizes smelling ladies underwear is because we give off a scent that attracts them kind of like animals. The word pheromones meaning any chemical substance released by an animal that serves to influence the physiology or behavior of other members of the same species.

But I guess if he knows and he doesn't mind, then you have nothing to worry about.

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Does he know? If no then tell him please if yes then everything should be fine unless he disagrees. Which really you're not cheating

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Uhm how do you get into this business lol because I would love to sell my used panties to pay my bills

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I wouldn't call it cheating but I would call it dishonest. The reason you feel sick about it is probably because you're hiding a secret from him. You never know how he'll feel until you tell him. I know of quite a few sex workers who have SO's, so try not to worry that there's no chance he'll be okay with it. Be prepared for him to be upset initially though, it's hard to hear that someone so close to you has been hiding something from you. If you're happy with this choice than I see no reason to stop, but I would just take a minute to kind of analyze yourself and question, are you not telling him because he might judge you? Or is it because you judge you? If it's making you feel unhappy or ashamed than I would think about finding another way to make money. I'm certainly not saying that you should judge yourself, not at all, just that this decision is really up to you and how it makes you feel. If you're loving life, then keep doing you babe! And please don't pay too much attention to the judgers and shamers, it's your body, your life, your choice!

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I think he would be upset maybe you can find another way? Maybe make jewelry or something to sell. But if you feel bad about something, chances are because it's not a good idea. I wouldn't call it cheating though. Good luck!

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