Sense of self

Especially after having my second baby, my feeling of self-worth amd self-confidence is at an all-time low. I love my family SO much, and these babies are my life! 😍 I just feel unnatractive, pudgy, frumpy and just recently been realizing, I have changed so much in the last 6 years since hubby and I met, and I'm not sure who I am now, or what makes me special, or unique, or attractive, what's so great about me now? I feel that my whole identity is in my kids now, and in my husband, and I feel like I'm not exciting enough, or interesting or smart or beautiful anymore. My husband is amazing, hott, loving, supportive, and wants sex often enough. I feel ridiculous for saying this but just wonder if I'll put him off somehow if I don't get myself together. I'm TRYING to be patient with myself, as I'm not quite 2.5 months out from having our daughter, but it's hard when I feel I've kinda... lost my SELF. Does anyone else feel this way? Anybody want to talk? :) It's a confusing point in my life right now. TIA :)