Things to never say yo a women right after having a baby.

My husband was telling me about how his sister said she wanted another baby but doesn't want to have one since she is 39. (She already has 3 sons one is only 15 months old). I jokingly told my husband we could have 4 more since I'm 26 and he said "no I want to be at least half way turned on when I look at you." I had our son 9 weeks ago pre pregnancy weight is 134 I'm currently 148 and really trying to lose weight. Maybe I'm over reacting but it secretly really hurt my feelings. He said he just wants the woman he married. which was a tan slim waste big booty girl now im a overly tired frumpy breastfeeding mom. 😩😭