To the teens TTC

By no means do I want you to feel judged or put down but please think these choices through. I tried to get pregnant as a teen and it was such an unwise decision. Do you have your own place? Are you finished with education? Do you have a stable job? Do you have access to insurance for all parties? I didn't think those things thru. So I set myself up for a life of struggle. Please think and make sure you are financially and emotionally ready. 
​I love my daughter and I thought I would be with her dad forever but I was a teen blinded by what I thought was love. I embarrassed my parents. I had to ask for welfare.
​It is your choice and I respect that. I just don't want to see anyone  struggle when they don't have to. 
​If you still decide to TTC, I wish you much luck and ease! But I wish someone would have made me think twice.