Dogs problems

I have a 7month old doberman lab mix that's extremely hyperactive and a 3month old pitbull puppy that's really lazy. I also live in a apartment and work 9 hour days. My boyfriend is a labor worker with 12 hour days, so he doesn't help with the dogs much because he help in other areas. My question is, should I give them up because I'm starting to stress over how hyperactive they are? I'm also scared my older dog will pull my down the stairs. My boyfriend doesnt want to get rid of either one but I'm only 9 weeks and I was thinking it's only going to get worse... Thoughts? Am I crazy?