My partner got blackout drunk on a Saturday night and assaulted me. He hit me hard four times across the back. And claims he doesn't remember it. I left the house and went to stay with family that evening and he spent the next 8 hours sending me horrible horrible texts until I finally told him, "enough! You hit me! This is insane, enough!"

 

He claims he has no memory of hitting me and was immediately apologetic. Over the next week I stayed at my parents house, but we tried to work on our relationship. However, the entire time, his focus was on him. I heard dozens of monologues about HIM. Any time I tried to talk about what I was going through, I was cut off to hear more about him. I told him I wasn't feeling supported or heard and that wasn't ok. He hit me, if he wanted this to work he had to listen to me and allow me to feel. 

 

Well, that wasn't good enough and we got in another blow out and he kicked me out of my home and changed the locks. So I am in the process of suing him for illegal eviction. 

 

Well, last week I start getting insane emails from him, with information in them he could only know if he was in my email from 5+ years ago. And he started threatening to release stupid things I did as a teenager to my friends and family. (Think dirty photos with/for ex boyfriends.)

 

He and his (lawyer) ex wife hacked into my email, logged into my Mac with her iCloud account, changed my password so I can't even log into my computer, AND violated my privacy by going through ALL my emails! 

 

Last night, SURPRISINGLY, he is unblocked from my Facebook! The asshole logged into my Facebook, unblocked himself, and then sent me horrible emails telling me to "stay out of his accounts!" I haven't touched a single account of his!

 

He abused me for a year. He manipulated me for a year! He tortured me for a year! He has sent me horrible emails for the last month nonstop! He is controlling and awful and I just want to be left alone!