how do I tell my mom I'm having sex ?!!!!!

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please help!! I'm 16 (almost 17) and me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and 4 months. we've been having sex since April and my mom has recently been asking if I've been having sex and I told her no. she also made and appointment for me to get BC in decemberbecause she wants to prevent pregnancy. but i am so scared to tell her that ive been having sexbut I feel terrible for lying to her. someone please give me some advice !!!! please !!!!!

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Just be honest with her. If she's asking you and making appts to put you on bc, chances are she's got a good idea of what's going on already. Mothers have excellent senses, especially with their daughters ?

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Honesty is the best. She is going to find out when you go to the doctors for the birth control. She probably is going to be upset. No mother wants to hear that their child is having sex. But she will be happy you are being upfront about it! Good luck!

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Make her a card and buy balloons

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I went through the same thing at 16. Got on BC but I waited till BC to have sex. Didn't tell my mom till I was 17 when she walked in on my boyfriend and I. I'd just be honest with her

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I was a rebel when I was a teen. I started having sex at 14. I was honest with my mom and told her straight forward. Mainly because I knew it was better to have the BC than be sorry later. As mad/upset as she was she was also somewhat "proud" that I had the guts to tell her the truth. I don't know your mom so she could be different but I always found it easier to just be open and honest with my mom.

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If she asked you just be honest with her.