Why can't I cum??

Question

I can't make myself cum when I masturbate and I don't cum during sex or anything. I've never been able to cum and I really wish I could. Is there something wrong with me?

Answer

There is nothing wrong with you it took me nearly 9 years from when I lost my virginity to actually come. I have been with my husband for 7 years and it only started happening about 2 years ago. My husband is very experienced and would spend hours of stimulating my clit with no orgasm. It's not anything he was doing wrong. It was more psychological for me I think. A lot of it I think was me owning my sexuality and feeling sure of myself. I am and have always been very self conscious so that vulnerability of losing control and letting yourself get lost in the sensation isn't always easy. Now my only problem is making myself come when I'm playing solo. Good luck on your orgasm journey, it will happen for you. Just stop thinking about whether or not it will happen and let youself get lost in the sensation. Having a loving partner that you trust completely and have no inhibitions with I think is a big part. Not all women can come with just any partner. Hope this helped!

Why can't I cum??

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