Asexuality. Experiences? Comments? How you found out?
For years and years I questioned what I considered my sexuality. Like I always knew I was different but no more so then throughout high school and my teen years. Before my first serious relationship at 14 which lasted four years I experimented with girls and boys not having sex but everything else inbetween. But I never understood why I never felt the urge and usually had to force myself (in a sense) while being this guy he always complained that I never wanted sex or never started it.. But I could never explain. Long story short he broke it off with me over sex.
I stayed single for about 6 months once again experimenting with both and sex with one other guy but again I never felt much. I had crushes and I did love my long term. Once I met my current guy whom I've been with for over a year now I fell in love but still have the same issue not wanting to do anything or not feeling it when we did.
After about 8 months I looked into it and realised finally after all the time looking for answers in myself that I was an Asexual. Once I explained to my extremely accomodating partner he understood. Now don't get me wrong I love sex but I only do it for fun. That's it. And now so for TTC. I always wondered if it could be due to childhood experiences or being assaulted at 13 by a boyfriend.
But really I guess I'm just wondering about anyone else's experiences or thoughts?
Sorry about the long read but anything would be great. ❤️❤️
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