Snapchat...

So my husband installed the snap chat app a few weeks ago after deleting his Facebook. I thought it was really strange seeing as how he doesn't really take photos of himself or really document his days. Snapchat isn't really something I see him downloading without reason. I didn't really say anything about it.

A little back story, a little over a year ago, I caught him flirting with another woman. I know some people think that cheating is all physical but I'm one of those types that feels like if you have to "hide, delete or lie about it" it's cheating. We decided to work through it BUT once trust is broken, it takes a lot of work to get it back on both sides.

So this morning, I caught myself looking through his phone. If you're one of those types of people that think neither party should look through each other's phone, please keep it to yourself. I looked at his snap chat log, which there wasn't much on it aside from this one girl that I know that he would not know from before we met. He isn't from around here and this woman works in the next town up. Of course, whatever she sent him, he had already opened so I don't know what it would've been. I haven't mentioned anything to him about it and I know if I do, it will start an arguement.

What do you ladies think? I know I will probably be bashed and there will be comments made about me trusting him and how looking through his phone is wrong but I want some honest opinions.

UPDATE: Well ladies. I confronted him Friday night. He said "I don't know who she is or how she got on my snapchat." I looked again and saw that she added him by his phone number (which means he had to know who she was.) It would not let me replay what ever she sent. I had a friend of mine send her a message on Facebook Friday. She didn't respond. Well... not until yesterday when my husband got home from drill and he receives a screen shot of the fb message from a number that was not saved in his phone. Well, it was her. I flipped my shit. Apparently, in mid May when he was in training in SC for 2 weeks, we got into an arguement and he made a POF (Plenty of Fish account.) Needless to say, I hacked into everything I possibly could have last night after he went to sleep and then looked at the phone bill today. I know it sounds psycho but to say the least, this is the end of our very short 14 month marriage. Here's a pic of the phone bill.. all of this is them texting and sending pictures.