Friends

So my friend who is having a lot of health issues this pregnancy was going to be placed on maternity leave early but then yesterday her bf got fired... So, she cancelled her boy's birthdays/her baby shower due to her being the only one working.. She is always stressed over finances but yet won't change how she does things ... I.e. Eat out 3x a day instead of cooking (she don't know how to cook and won't learn)... Downgrade her bills .. Cable is horribly high. Anyways I've known her for 15 yrs and felt that it was wrong that she cancel everything so I opted to throw her one since I had things from my baby shower last year... Another one of her friends was like I'll cover games and favors n cupcakes I'm like good and good we can do a potluck... Well when the friend found out she was like well thank you but I don't really want to have a baby's how're/birthday at the end of August not be outside.. Keep in mind her one on August 13 was gna b outside at a park ... I feel like I offered my help and she didn't appreciate it.. She said o my mom is gna throw me a shower at Cec if my fb gets a job.. But thankx...