Does anyone else have a relationship like mine...... I have been with my oh for 7 years but it's never been right he's never ever effectionate towards me ever!! I never get any cuddles or kisses and it realy gets me down. We have a 4 year old daughter together and all he does is spend time on his phone I kicked him out last August hoping it would make him realise and I thought it did. We kind of got back together 3 months ago but nothing has changed and I regret letting him worm his way back in as now I'm wanting him to do something wrong so I can go back brim on my own and find someone that makes me happy. Am I being selfish and unfair on my daughter that I'm not putting more effort into it?