Is it okay to throw your own babyshower?

cat • mama to 3 earthside, 2 angel babies. Pregnant with rainbow twins due April ‘25. 💜
I'm a FTM, I don't really have any close friends to throw me one, my mom and MIL I think were planning on it but I like to be in control so I figure they could help with ideas and such. I also I don't want them to end up paying for all of it.. So is it okay to throw your own?

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